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Friday, February 8, 2013

Seven Deadly Thoughts of Leaders

by Thom S. Rainer

By the time we hear of a leadership failure, any attempts at intervention to save the leader are usually futile. The damage has been done. The family or organization suffers as their leader has fallen or, at the very least, made a major mistake.
Most great leadership failures, however, don’t begin with some stupid action. The leader usually has thoughts about the action well before he or she actually makes them. Some of those thoughts can be warning signs to heed. They are like the bright, flashing red light that demands we stop. Failure to stop can result in great harm.
I’ve had the opportunity through the years to listen to leaders talk about their biggest victories and their greatest failures. When the latter takes place, these leaders reflect that, most of the time, the failure took place in a deadly thought pattern. They lament they didn’t recognize these deadly thoughts for the warnings that they were. Here are the seven most significant warning thoughts I’ve heard:
  1. “It won’t hurt to compromise a little.” So the numbers get fudged a bit. Or the private meeting with someone of the opposite gender is deemed harmless. Or you take credit for something you didn’t do.
  2. “I can give my family time later in life when I’m more established.” You may not even have a family if you wait until later. Few leaders have ever died wishing they had put more hours into work. Many have died lamenting their failure to give their family time and attention.
  3. “No one really pays attention to what I do.” Wrong! If you are a leader, many people are watching you more closely than you think. In organizations, those under your leadership watch you closely. In families, the children watch the parents with an eye for detail that can be downright humbling. What are they seeing when they watch you?
  4. “I need to be careful not to rock the boat.” Granted, some people put their mouths in action before their minds are in gear. But too many leaders, to mix the metaphor from a boat to an athletic event, play defense and not offense. They are too risk averse. They are more worried about failure than proactive leadership. Thus their thought patterns are almost always about playing it safe.
  5. “I can put off that tough decision until later.” Leaders often think difficult decisions can be put on hold. They are involved in “analysis paralysis” thinking as an excuse to defer the decisions. Their thinking leads them to deadly procrastination.
  6. “That person messed up five years ago. He doesn’t deserve a second chance.” Many driven leaders shared with me that they failed to demonstrate forgiveness and grace in their leadership role. Their thought patterns focused on the failures of those in the organization or family. They thus “wrote off” these people. When a time came in the leader’s life where he needed an extra measure of grace or forgiveness shown, few people were willing to give him what he himself failed to give.
  7. “My main goal is money.” Money is not evil; the love of money is. If leaders’ thought patterns are consumed with money, problems are on the horizon. Money can be an instrument for good or evil. The goal is not to make money, but to make a difference with your money.
I am grateful to be able to hear from leaders who shared with me openly and transparently. What would you add to these seven deadly thoughts? Here are ones sent in:

#8: “If I don’t do it no one will.” or “No one is going to do it as well as I.” We need to kill the fear of delegation. Know your people. Know their gifts. Put their gifts to work! In my experience, folks don’t walk up and volunteer. They aren’t lazy, they simply don’t know the need unless we reveal the need. In most cases (for whatever the reason) we would rather do it ourselves than to reach out.

#8 “I can’t do that! I’m a leader and people are watching.” – 1 Tim 3 teaches us that overseers should be “above reproach” but leaders must always remember that whether you are a leader or not, we are called to holiness. We must be serious about avoiding sin but a leader’s motivation must never be for self-image but always to glorify God. Guard your hearts!

#8 “I’m too important to step down. This ministry can’t survive without me.”
Any real Christian ministry belongs to the Lord Jesus, not the servants who work there. He can provide whatever it needs, including someone to replace you, or another ministry to replace “yours”.

#8 I would add “If I apologize or admit weakness, people will stop following me.” I have only once served under a leader who apologized for his mistakes and sought forgiveness on a personal level with those he had spoken harshly too or misjudged.

Thursday, January 17, 2013

5 Leadership Mistakes I’ve Made (That You Don’t Need To)
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I love it when leaders share their success stories. It’s great to pick up transferable principles and try to work them into your life.
But there’s a part of me that likes it even more when leaders share their mistakes.
When someone shares their mistakes, I feel like I can relate to them. It reminds me I’m not alone. And it shows me we’re really all in this together.
The best part is once you’ve noticed the mistakes you naturally make, you can learn new skills to manoeuvre around them.
For all five mistakes listed below, I’ve had to adjust the sails and learn new behaviours that make me more effective at what I’m called to do.

Hopefully what’s taken me years won’t need to take you nearly as long.
Here are five leadership mistakes I’ve made:
1. Pointing out what’s wrong – not what’s right. Many leaders share a trait: they immediately notice what’s right and wrong, and gravitate toward fixing what’s wrong. I’m king of this. And ironically, it motivates me to get better. But it can end up being de-motivating to the people around you. I’ve had to learn to celebrate the wins (there are a ton of them when you look), point out what’s right and high five the team. Only then should you move to what’s wrong. Otherwise you knock the wind out of people. Honestly, this is still a daily discipline with me.
2. Thinking a leader needs to have all the answers. As a young leader, I was afraid people would notice that I was young and didn’t know as much as I should. It took me a few years to become comfortable with saying “I don’t know”. Wish I’d learned that right off the bat. Ironically, people already know that you don’t know. And when you say you don’t know, it actually creates empathy and a better sense of team.  Now more than ever, I fully realize how much I have left to learn.
3. Trying to be too original. This characterized my first 7 or 8 years of leadership. I didn’t know you could take what others have done and simply implement it (I’m not talking about plagiarizing sermons or stealing proprietary ideas here – but about ministry models and strategies that you’re free to use). I’d go to a conference and feel I’d need to change something enough to put ‘my spin’ or ‘our spin’ on it. Well, sometimes your spin makes it worse. If you really have an original idea that’s going to change things – use it. But there are smarter people who are further along than you who you can borrow from. And sometimes you just need to give yourself permission to borrow.
4.  Using people to accomplish tasks. I’m a task guy. Early on, sometimes I saw people as a means to an end, not an end in themselves. It’s a goal of mine to do what great managers do – not use people to get tasks done, but to get ‘people done’ through tasks.
5. Depending too much on my own strength. Being an A-type personality has strengths and weaknesses. Looking back, I wish I had developed a better sense of team earlier and I wished I had sought out mentors earlier. I’m still also trying to figure out the balance between Jesus’ teaching that human effort accomplishes nothing and that we need to serve and lead with all diligence. I’ll get back to you on that one. Maybe in heaven.
Those are five leadership mistakes I’ve made. How about you?
What are you struggling with? How are you overcoming?
What are you stuck on?

About Carey Nieuwhof: Carey Nieuwhof is the lead pastor of Connexus Community Church. He is the author of the best selling book, Leading Change Without Losing It and co-author of Parenting Beyond Your Capacity. Carey speaks to North American and global church leaders about change, leadership, and parenting.

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Mentoring a few for greater impact

Yesterday I met with a pastor of a new church that is reaching a particular language group. The church was started by a group who came from a mother church 30 miles away. Pastor (we will call him Joe) was asked to lead the group. He has had no training or experience in church planting.

Joe is now coming to one of our Accelerate Coaching Networks for pastors of new churches led by an experienced church planting pastor. We are also trying to hook him up with a national network for their local intensive training.

Joe is frustrated because most of the people are not "catching the vision or involved". I encouraged him to view the people as Jesus modeled. He spoke to the masses. He trained the twelve. And he spent focused time with Peter, James and John. In effect Jesus had three strategies. He gave each group what they needed to help move them to the next level. The majority of his time was not spent with the masses, but with the twelve and specifically with the three.

Who are the three in your church that you are spending time with? How can these people be mentored in their spiritual life and leadership? Did Jesus recruit them into a classroom to lecture them? No he took them with him and modeled life and ministry.

Try this: Line up times when you are meeting with people to: share your faith, follow-up a new believer, encourage a believer in his walk, disciple someone. Then call one of your three and ask them to go with you. They can come along to pray and "catch" ministry concepts and skills. Then you debrief and talk about it - what they saw, what they learned, what we could have done differently, etc. Gradually you have them take the lead in situations while you watch.

What you are doing is mentoring people in the Christian life and ministry and leadership. Instead of "recruiting" people into ministry you are "mentoring" people into ministry.

3 Steps
1. Pray for the right three
2. Pray for and take opportunities to minister to people
3. Invite one of your three to go with you

Sunday, April 15, 2012

3 ways youngs leaders must leverage their growing influence

Rick Duncan

As a young influencer, King David, ancient Israel's leader, experienced much success. In the first days of his rule as a 30 something year old, David led Israel to victories over their long-standing enemies, Edom, Moab, the Ammonites, the Philistines, and the Amalekites. "The enemies brought tribute to David and served him... And the LORD gave victory to David wherever he went" (2 Samuel 8:12b, 14b). The victories gave David more resources than he had ever had. The man who was once a teenage shepherd tending his daddy's sheep was now blessed with influence beyond his wildest dreams. Wealth was now at his disposal. What would he choose to do with all these resources? Young leaders must never forget that leadership success is a test. God wants to know what the young leader will do with his or her growing influence. Never forget that influence is a trust and influence is a test. From David's life, we can learn 3 ways a young leader should use newly acquired resources and influence.
 
1. Provide for the worship of God. Neighboring kings brought tribute to David. "Joram brought with him articles of silver, of gold, and of bronze.These also King David dedicated to the LORD, together with the silver and gold that he dedicated from all the nations he subdued" (2 Samuel 8:11). Godly young leaders must lead the organization to invest in Kingdom of God issues. How can you lead your organization to dedicate resources to build the kingdom of God?
 
2. Pursue justice for your people. "David reigned over all Israel. And David administered justice and equity to all his people" (2 Samuel 8:15). Poor previous leadership and enemy invasions had meant that the people suffered injustice. David didn't think about himself first. He set into place policies and practices that brought equity to his people. How can you lead your organization to institute policies and practices to take care of the marginalized?
 
3. Pick a person or a project and personally invest heavily there. David didn't forget his friendship with Jonathan, Saul's son. He found someone in need from Jonathan's family to bless. "And the king said, 'Is there not still someone of the house of Saul, that I may show the kindness of God to him?' Ziba said to the king, 'There is still a son of Jonathan; he is crippled in his feet'" (2 Samuel 9:3). David brought this crippled son into his own house and family and provided for him the rest of his days. This story of David's kindness in particular solidified the people in their admiration and trust of his leadership. How will you personally show a particular kindness that will inspire and encourage your people? Young leaders must remember their success must be leveraged for others. You've been blessed to be a blessing. How will you bless others? Start today!

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Temptations of pastors w/other pastors

From Kevin DeYoung: Temptations of pastors w/other pastors-jealousy/envy/bitterness/despair/comparison/criticism/pride/seeking to impress.

7 "musts" for young aspiring leaders: indispensable qualities young leaders must possess

By Rick Duncan
The Bible is a book full of descriptions about older-younger leadership transitions. Moses to Joshua. Elijah to Elisha. Paul to Timothy. And in I Samuel, Saul to David.

God was sovereign over all these transitions, of course. His plan was being accomplished. But from a human standpoint, only a few of the biblical transitions were purposeful. Most were unplanned. And messy.
(The good news is that biblical narrative is descriptive, not prescriptive. We can learn from the botched leadership transitions in the Bible. We are not doomed to make the same mistakes. By God's grace and for His glory, we can do better.)
Saul's transition to David was a mess - at least on Saul's side of the equation. He was completely unaware at first that God was grooming David to be the next leader.
In I Samuel 17, we see the army of Israel being taunted by Goliath. David shows up to bring some food to his brothers. He is horrified that God's glory was being compromised by the mockery of the Philistine and the unwillingness of the Israelis to shut him up. Saul was head and shoulders taller than anyone else yet he, too, was afraid to take on the giant. So, David, the the unknown, upcoming leader, volunteers to do for Israel what no one else would do.
As you read through a few selected verses in I Samuel 17, see if you can spot some "musts" - indispensable qualities - for young aspiring leaders.

And Saul said to David, "You are not able to go against this Philistine to fight with him, for you are but a youth, and he has been a man of war from his youth." And David said, "The LORD who delivered me from the paw of the lion and from the paw of the bear will deliver me from the hand of this Philistine." And Saul said to David, "Go, and the LORD be with you!" Then Saul clothed David with his armor. He put a helmet of bronze on his head and clothed him with a coat of mail, and David strapped his sword over his armor. And he tried in vain to go, for he had not tested them. Then David said to Saul, "I cannot go with these, for I have not tested them." So David put them off. Then he took his staff in his hand and chose five smooth stones from the brook and put them in his shepherd's pouch. His sling was in his hand, and he approached the Philistine. Then David said to the Philistine, "You come to me with a sword and with a spear and with a javelin, but I come to you in the name of the LORD of hosts, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied. This day the LORD will deliver you into my hand... that all the earth may know that there is a God in Israel, and that all this assembly may know that the LORD saves not with sword and spear. For the battle is the LORD's, and he will give you into our hand." When the Philistine arose and came and drew near to meet David, David ran quickly toward the battle line to meet the Philistine. And David put his hand in his bag and took out a stone and slung it and struck the Philistine on his forehead. The stone sank into his forehead, and he fell on his face to the ground. And the men of Israel and Judah rose with a shout and pursued the Philistines...
I Samuel 17:33, 37-40, 45, 46a, 46c-49, 52a
Here are the seven "musts" for young aspiring leaders
1. Younger leaders must have the guts to take on the challenges that older leaders don't take on or won't take on.
2. Younger leaders must fight against Goliaths not for their own glory, but for the glory of God and the protection of the people.
3. Younger leaders must trust solely in the Lord to overcome the odds against them.
4. Younger leaders must leverage past experiences for future victories.
5. Younger leaders must refuse to wear someone else's armor to the battle.
6. Younger leaders must use the unique tools God has placed in their hands.
7. Younger leaders must inspire others to join the battle and rout God's enemies.

What is the Goliath that God wants you to defeat? Will you trust God and step up to the responsibility? Will you fight the good fight in a unique way? Will you give God the glory when He uses you to defeat that Goliath?

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Vision Casting - A biblical principle applies to business also

Bruce Johnson, a former pastor, does an excellent job of taking biblical principles and applying them to business in his consulting. His points are excellent. add a 5th princple at the bottom.
Ron

Four Keys to Becoming a Better Vision Caster


You have a group of employees, customers/clients and maybe volunteers, so how do you motivate them? How do you inspire them to do something insanely great? How do you get them emotionally involved so that they’re willing to work harder, at a higher level, and in the direction you want them to go?
Answer: You become a master caster! But therein lies the problem Very few owners, entrepreneurs and leaders have been trained in how to cast vision, let alone how to cast it well.
So to take your vision-casting abilities to the next level (i.e. to improve your ability to inspire others and raise morale), you’ll want to take advantage of these four quick and easy keys to effective vision-casting.
1. Use the first plural pronoun, “We.”
One of the most common mistakes leaders make when casting vision is they talk from their perspective as the leader. They’ll often say, “As I see it …” Or, “Here’s where I’d like to see us go.” Or, “The executive team and I have concluded that …”
The problem with all of that non-we language is that it separates you, the leader, from the people you’re trying to lead. That’s not very inspiring.
Most people want to be a part of something bigger than them. So when you make the change from the first person singular pronoun, “I,” to the first plural pronoun, “We,” your vision casting ratchets up instantaneously.
Instead of saying, “Here’s where I’d like to see us go,” you should say, “Here’s where we’re going.” “This is what we’re going to accomplish.” “Together, we’re going to …”
I can’t overstate how important this simple change in language is. But if you want to become a master caster, then you’ve got to change your pronoun from “I” to “We.” The moment you do so, you’ll begin to see your people’s eyes start to open and get excited.
2. Give your people a name
Following on the first key, most people want to be a part of something bigger. So, how do you do that? Well, think through organizations you’ve been a part of. For example, I attended the University of Wisconsin-Madison. When the university writes to me how do you think they refer to me? Exactly, as a Badger. The name means something.
If I worked at IBM, how would you refer to me? You’d probably call me an IBMer. Back in my former career, the name of my church was Seneca Creek Community Church. When I wanted to cast vision I always referred to my people as, “Creekers.”
Now, it’s not just that a name is a name—a name should mean something. It ought to stand for something. For example, one of our core values was about excellence. So if I was talking with someone and their work product wasn’t excellent, and I wanted to cast vision, I could refer to our name and simply say to them, “Do you think this meets our Creeker standard?”
Now, the real power in a name comes when you combine keys one and two, “This year, as Creekers, we’re going to …”
So, what name can you use to refer to the people in your business or organization?
By the way, this same principle works in parenting. My children, from their toddler years on, have heard me say over and over again, “This is what Johnsons do …,” as well as, “Johnsons don’t do …”
3. Make sure your vision passes the believability test
Another common mistake in vision-casting is casting a vision so big it’s not believable. For some reason, way too many leaders think that if they’re going to cast a compelling vision it has to be HUGE!! Wrong!
From my former career, I’ve watched churches do this for years. A church of 200 (or 500 or 1,000) will say something like this. “Our vision is to ignite a world-wide movement …” Or, “We’re going to change the world …” Or, “We’re going to be largest church in the world …” Yada yada yada.
Unfortunately, none of that will happen. The vast majority of the people in the communities in which those churches are located aren’t even aware that church exists in their community (let alone the rest of the 6.8 billion people on planet earth). None of those visions pass the believability test.
Now, lest I be too hard on churches, businesses do this all the time as well. A small business with a handful of employees will say something like, “Our vision is to change the way the world sees XYZ.” Really? The world. All 6.8 billion people are going to see something completely differently because a small business with under 10 employees made it their vision? Forget that! It ain’t gonna happen!
A vision that can’t be seen by others isn’t a vision, it’s a pipe dream.
Now, I’m not saying, “Dream small.” If you follow me at all you know that isn’t true. I want you to dream big. Just make it believable. If you have 10 employees, then maybe you can change something in your city or county. But forget casting the “best in the world” vision. It’s just not believable.
Note: If you’re the next Steve Jobs and you can get people to believe it, go for it. But for the rest of us mere mortals, scale it back a little and I’m confident you’ll find far more traction with most people.
Besides, who decides who’s the best? How do you measure it? And who cares?
Note 2: The one way around this is to keep narrowing your niche and geography down. To be the best SEO company in the world is hard to justify (especially for a small business). But to be the best SEO company for small real estate attorney practices in Montgomery County that prefer Bing over Google, that would be achievable and possibly believable (though I doubt inspiring).
Let’s be honest, apart from the leaders of companies, you and I have known very few people who really care if they’re the best or biggest or largest business in their market—which is why the fourth key is incredibly important.
4. Make sure you appeal to something your people are interested in
The final mistake that most leaders make when they’re trying to cast vision is they focus on things they’re interested in, not what their people are interested in.
For example, owners and CEOs often care about numbers and metrics, shareholder value and ROI, market share and profitability, size and status compared to others in their market space, etc. However, most employees and customers don’t care as much.
Whether their company is the best or biggest or world’s number one rarely motivates them (usually because the changes don’t benefit them—though they often do for the owner or CEO—which is why they’re so interested in the changes).
What do employees care about? You know, the things that affect them (like how much more money THEY’LL make vs. how much more the company will make. Or how will these changes affect their work? etc.)
But their biggest desire, and the one you should speak to often, is to know that their work matters. That they’re making a difference. That they’re a part of something bigger than them that’s having a positive impact on other people’s lives.
Now to help you believe that this can be done with anything in any business, I’m going to pick something rather bland and boring—increasing efficiency scores, and make it more appealing. So, here’s how you could do this.
Instead of saying, “So, this quarter my goal for our business unit is to increase our efficiency scores by 10%” (snore), you might want to say something like this.
“This quarter our goal is to increase our order processing efficiency so that we can get the right drugs to the right scientists as quickly as possible because you and I are not in the order fulfillment business, we’re in the helping to find cures for people business. And if we can get the right drugs to the right scientists faster than we have in the past, maybe just maybe, we can play a part in helping to save a few more people’s lives. So will you join me on this endeavor this quarter?”
The difference between the two is amazing isn’t it? Even though both were focused on the same issue, increasing efficiency—the first was focused on the management side and the second, on the employee side.
In other words, whenever you can connect a task/initiative/change effort/goal to something bigger that your people care about (not you/management), you’ll immediately see your vision-casting abilities skyrocket.
So, there you have it—four keys that can take your vision-casting to the next level. If you use just one of these, you’ll improve your ability to cast vision and raise morale. But if you use all four, you’ll be amazed at the difference. Plus you’ll be a master caster!
That said, there’s only question left to answer, “How can you use all four of these vision-casting keys in the next 24 hours?
To your accelerated success!
P.S. If you have some other practical ideas or keys for improving vision-casting, would you take a moment to share them with the rest of us by using the comments section below (or, if you’re reading this by RSS or email, click here).
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Principle #5
Help people understand their part in fulfilling the vision.

Example #1: Mark Davis, a friend from Arkansaw, was led to Christ by Don Cousins at Willow Creek back in the 70's. At that time Willow had not written all their values but everyone knew their part in helping fulfill the vision. Everyone knew that their part was to bring "unchurched Harry or Mary" to church where the church's clear message would combine with the individuals life change to be used of God to bring people to faith in christ.

Example #2: Mark then went on the staff of Fellowship Bible Church in Little Rock, AK. The clear expectation there was that everyone should be in a"Common cause" group impacting their community. Everyone knew that they help fulfill the vision by being part of a common cause group.

This is not always easy to define each person's role in a compelling way. One church that I consulted with was having a great impact. They had defined the churches corporate role and the pastors role in fulfilling the vision. But they missed out on even greater impact by not defining the individual role. As a result many were content watching others "make an impact."

Pray and grapple with how to help each individual feel their role is important and a vital part of fulfilling your churches vision.